In case you haven’t heard on Facebook, my mom most likely has colon cancer. She is in the hospital right now and I won’t know for sure until they do surgery on Monday or Tuesday. However, the doctor said that with this particular kind of cancer, it is considered cancer until proven not cancer.
My Genealogy Now Has New Importance
So why am I writing on this blog right now? Honestly it is because I can’t sleep, I feel nauseous and I don’t know what else to do until tomorrow morning. I am new to all of this and never imagined myself in this sort of situation – especially while I am so young.
I have a million thoughts running through my head right now – most of which I am trying to block out. But one of the thoughts that feels “safe” for me to think about is how my genealogy has taken an all new importance.
While before today I was primarily doing genealogy for my own curiosity, everything has changed. I now keep thinking about how I should have asked my mom more questions and listened more carefully to her stories. I know that I am overreacting right now because she isn’t dead and I am trying not to think like this – but a part of me just can’t help it.
All of a sudden, I feel like my genealogy needs to be shared with as many people as possible. Suddenly, it is all about keeping the happy memories alive and in the front of everyone’s minds because I could really use them.
I also wonder if any of my ancestors ever had to go through something similar to my situation. As an only child, I am shouldered with a lot of the responsibility of keeping family members up to date and organizing medical information. Since I’ve never dealt with anything like this before, I can’t help but wonder what my ancestors did to deal with such huge news like this.
I guess I am a little strange to be thinking about genealogy at a time like this, but genealogy has always been a form of therapy for me. I think over the next few days I am going to be needing a lot of this sort of therapy.
P.S: I have never dealt with anything like this before, so if anyone has any advice on this, I would love to hear it. If you are not comfortable with sharing it in the comments section, please email me. I could use all the advice that I can get.
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